I’m a human being, and yet I know many times I showed up as a human doing, and still do sometimes.Doing mode prevents us from being able to focus on the most important things because we are too busy scoring points checking the little things off the list. They may add up and give us a false sense of accomplishment but we fail to prioritize what really needs our attention. We also miss a lot. Doing mode keeps us from being in the moment and sends us on a beeline for THE solution before we’ve…
Wondering How You’ll Survive This Messy Season?
If things are feeling messy and you are wondering how you will survive this season, I have an invitation for you. I know we don’t always want to resurface our past messy moments, but they actually are incredibly instructive when we face a new one. I know this from personal experience. 1. Promoted into a role from the inside, where jealousy surfaced along with the challenge of leading those who once were my direct peers. Learning: Don’t diminish myself due to others’ discomfort. 2. Hired to…
What Can We Do With This One Big Beautiful Life?
“…the longing for awe as a path for self-growth and transformation is universal, a shared need to connect with the mystery of who we are.” — Marcelo Gleiser, The Dawn of a Mindful Universe This is benefit of Choosing Awe when smack dab in the middle of a messy season. When we choose awe we embrace the tension between exhilaration and fear. Often these are messy seasons that ask new things of us. They invite us to look at things we’ve perhaps shoved under the rug and out of view. They also…
Why I Celebrate My Messy Moments (Even the Hard Ones)
At some point in my career, I stopped dreading my messy moments. And it’s not because the moments themselves got easier. In fact, each one has...
