Why Asking for Help Is the Generous Move

Why Asking for Help Is the Generous Move

Ever notice what happens in your brain (and body) when you finally ask for help? I didn’t, until I had no choice but to find out. Things weren’t going well. I was drowning in deadlines, my shoulders scrunched so tight they practically touched my ears, and...
Why Asking for Help Is the Generous Move

The Signal You’re Almost Missing

Have you noticed that when things are messy, we can be so focused on simply surviving them that we can’t see the opportunities right in front of us. I see this all the time with those I support and I’ve lived it myself. Messy has shown up again and again across my...
Why Asking for Help Is the Generous Move

I Just Turned 38!

I announced on LinkedIn that I’d be launching a podcast well before Thriving in the Messy Middle existed. Putting it out into the world before it was real was part of the point as I knew it would help me manifest it. As The Messy Middle Coach, I have the...
Why Asking for Help Is the Generous Move

What’s Really Happening? (Not the Story.)

That story I was telling myself was about to take me out! I had arrived at some conclusions about my colleagues, and I’d built a narrative that was so disempowering it was staggering. I had decided that I didn’t fit in. Now, I have been places where that...